So, here you are in Eureka Springs! You’re standing at the edge of a metaphorical cliff, looking down at the vast nothingness of existence, and suddenly, poof! The “you” you thought you were vanishes.
No, this isn’t an ad for a meditation retreat in Eureka Springs; it’s ego death.
“Breathe out. Take it easy. You’re not real.”— Eshwar Segobind
Ego death isn’t just a snazzy term tossed around at fancy Hollywood parties. It’s a profound disruption of our self-concept, leading to a breathtaking blurring of boundaries between our “I” and the vast universe that envelops us. Think of it as shedding the glittering layers of a sequined gown to reveal the raw beauty underneath.
Speaking of Hollywood, in a 2017 interview at New York Fashion Week as well as other public appearances, Canadian-American actor Jim Carrey made headlines by expressing existential thoughts like, "There is no me. There's just things happening." He described how he had realized that the persona of "Jim Carrey" was a construct - a collection of stories, roles, and labels assigned to him over the years.
This 2017 interview fascinated me into doing more research about "ego death." I wanted to write something that could assist any person on a similar journey to the summit of existence where we end up finding no one.
After much research, here's what I want to share with you ...
The ego is not who you are. It is a mental image that you carry with you, a story that you tell yourself about yourself. - Author, Eckhart Tolle
Ego death involves losing the very identity that we cling to. The ego, derived from the Latin word for “I,” is the quintessential sense of self. When it meets its demise, it’s akin to the curtain falling on a grand performance — sudden, shocking, and oh-so-liberating.
Carrey has shared profound insights about losing his attachment to the "self" and the illusion of identity, which resonates strongly with the concept of ego dissolution.
While filming Man on the Moon (1999), Carrey fully immersed himself in the role of comedian Andy Kaufman, to the extent that he reportedly "lost himself" in the character. In the documentary Jim & Andy: The Great Beyond, he reflects on this as a transformative experience, one that blurred the lines between his identity and the persona he portrayed.
While Carrey may not explicitly use the term "ego death" in his explanations, his reflections on the dissolution of self and his existential insights strongly suggest that he has undergone experiences akin to it. These moments seem to have fundamentally reshaped his perspective on life, fame, and the nature of existence.
In my own discoveries while journeying forward with my research on this subject, I believe that there are several hallmarks of ego death, however, in this blog-post, I will focus on three:
Detachment from identity and societal labels.
Realization of the self as an illusion or construct.
A shift toward seeing oneself as part of a larger, interconnected reality.
1. Detachment from Identity and Societal Labels
Eureka Springs has a way of dissolving the boundaries that define us. Much like the concept of ego death (where the self is seen as an illusion) this town challenges visitors to let go of preconceived notions. Is it a spiritual haven? An artist’s retreat? A relic of the past? Eureka Springs refuses to be pinned down, mirroring the journey of those who come here searching for something more.
As you wander Eureka streets, the labels you’ve placed on yourself (your job, your responsibilities, your titles) begin to feel less significant. You’re no longer “the Director of Human Resources,” “the uncle,” or “the one who has it all figured out.” In Eureka Springs, you’re simply a traveler, a resident, a seeker, a soul ready to shed its layers. Here, the demands of identity fade into the background, leaving room for something deeper: the freedom to just exist.
2. Realization of the Self as an Illusion or Construct
The town’s energy has long attracted those on a spiritual path. Nowhere is this more evident than at the Thorncrown Chapel. This breathtaking glass structure, nestled in the woods of Eureka Springs, feels like a portal to another dimension. As sunlight filters through its walls, visitors often describe a profound sense of being enveloped by something larger than themselves. In that moment, the ego (the construct we call “self”) becomes a whisper in the grand symphony of existence.
When I visit Thorncrown Chapel after dark, I am transported into another layer of existence as I stare mesmerized at the sconces (shaped like crosses) in between the chapel's glass window panels. It takes me away as I stare deeply into the glass as the sconces are reflected in perpetuity (one after the other in infinity) almost as if to remind me about the infinite powers around me and within me.
A visit to the Blue Spring Heritage Center offers a similar awakening. This sacred spring, revered by Native American tribes and modern-day pilgrims alike, reflects the sky above with crystalline clarity. The illusion it creates feels like a metaphor for the dissolution of the self. Standing there, surrounded by nature’s quiet grandeur, it’s impossible not to sense the truth: the self is an illusion, and we are part of something infinitely larger. It feels like a seamless blending of heaven and earth.
3. A Shift Toward Seeing Oneself as Part of a Larger, Interconnected Reality
For those seeking connection through creativity, Eureka Springs offers countless opportunities to dissolve the ego through art. Local galleries brim with works that defy convention, while workshops invite you to lose yourself in the process of creation. Here, the act of making art becomes an act of surrender, letting go of perfectionism and embracing the messy, joyful process of being fully present.
Nature lovers, too, will find the Ozarks to be an endless source of inspiration. The untamed beauty of the forests, waterfalls, trails and hidden caves surrounding Eureka Springs humbles even the most stubborn egos. Perhaps the most transformative experience is a visit to Lake Leatherwood. Glide across its still waters in a kayak, and you’ll feel every ripple echo the heartbeat of the earth. In this silence, the boundaries between self and world blur, revealing the interconnected web of life.
Even the community of Eureka Springs reflects this profound shift. Artists, healers, and free spirits gather here, celebrating individuality while embracing the collective. Conversations with locals often turn philosophical, offering insights that linger long after your visit. The paradox of ego death comes alive in Eureka Springs: by losing yourself, you find your true essence.
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Eureka Springs isn’t just a destination; it’s an experience. It’s a place where the ego, with all its demands and definitions, takes a backseat to something more profound. Here, you can begin to shed your labels, learn to connect with the world around you, and begin the process of rediscovering the very essence of who you truly are.
Come to Eureka Springs and come prepared to meet yourself.❤️
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